Sexual addition is extremely destructive, both to the individual and to the marriage partner.

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This week, I invited sex tech consultant Lux Alpatrum to explain the culture around digital sex, and how technology is influencing intimacy. on i Tunes, listen on Sound Cloud, or subscribe via RSS. You can also find the entire collection of What's Tech?

The internet fills a need for "more, easier and better." For the cybersex addict, increasing amounts of time are spent "surfing," downloading, creating files, masturbating, reading information posted on sexual bulletin boards, exchanging sexual information live with others in sexual chat rooms or via computer cameras, or directing their own live sex shows on interactive sites--in short, looking for what's new, what's better than last time.

The range, scope, and prevalence of sex technology in 2015 makes the AOL chatrooms of 1997 seem quaint.

Snapchat, Tinder, and even Facebook double as social networks, dating platforms, and subtle messaging systems for sexual missives.

The blue green glow of the computer made him look diseased.

I found him in his usual spot, his basement office. The Internet has become the newest, most rapidly growing form of sexual acting out for many sex addicts. He was looking at porno, again,” reports a counseling client.While most of my work focuses on pornography addiction in men, I’ve also worked with many women who are addicted. One third of all visitors to pornographic websites are women.About 17% of all pornography addicts are women, and the numbers are growing.It is not real.” “That aspect fantasy might be why so many married people get lured into affairs online when that was not their original intent.