Which is why, in part, Margo Jones finds herself once a month at Sea-Tac Airport, either picking up her boyfriend Ramonde Carpenter, or flying out to New York City to visit him.

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And another thing, you can still have a black woman. After reading posts such as his, I am starting to see why decent black women are giving up and looking elsewhere.

It would make him no difference..has already come to the conclusion that black women are not worth his time.

And because I had girlfriends who told me about their escapades on the site, the good and the bad, the inevitable creeps and trolls, I felt relatively prepared for an imperfect if interesting experience.

What I wasn’t prepared for was the horror story that is online dating as a black woman.

All I knew was that as someone painfully shy around men, dating in the real world, in New York City, felt downright impossible.

If anything, this was a way for me to gauge my own interest, and to date in a way that felt a bit more intentional, a bit more on my own terms.

It has been hard to deal with black women, but if she cannot accept me for who I am, she can kick rocks. I finally get the message..I decent black woman I must seek my mate elsewhere.

Now watch these women get on this thread and call you a white women loving sell out punk. Then, in 10 years they want you to "step up to the plate", and clean up the clusterfuck they have made of thier lives, laugh in their faces. How inconsiderate of you to take up that woman's time by working hard and accomplishing goals, when she could be with a thug who can hit the bottom of the pussy, who can give her a boatload of little thugspawns and STD's. We do not want 'thugs" and so called good men do not want us.

As a painfully self-conscious biracial woman, I had struggled to date at an Ivy League school, and studying abroad was as much an escape as it was a necessary academic endeavor for an international relations major.