The way the whole night flew by with effortless conversation. He doesn’t call you for the next five days before your date.

This is very different from him messaging you at 1 a.m.

to swing by a party and pick him up, so you meet his friends fleetingly. He really goes out of his way to see you, even if he’s already seen you a few times this week.

If your new guy is cool with spending time (including nights) at your apartment, that’s a pretty clear signal that he’s really into you.

It’s even more significant if you have a super girly apartment. If you’re dating someone who seems crazy anxious, it’s pretty obvious that he’s looking for a way out.

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If you’re in that limbo phase with a guy who gives you that irrational oxytocin high and you just can’t let go, despite the overwhelming evidence that this is doomed, do yourself a favor and call him right now. And now that you’ve purged yourself of the man who will never be your husband, you need to jump start your love life from scratch.Or that window where you clarify that things are now serious somehow came and went, and things just feel awkward.Or maybe you’re just on the cusp, and neither one of you wants to blow up the status quo, so you both just play it cool.1. Specifically, he made a point to bring you along to meet his friends.But if you’re unsure of how he views you, and you go out to a dinner that’s all couples … No guy who wants to keep things casual is going to take you out with a bunch of other couples. If he wanted to keep his distance and make things casual, he wouldn’t be texting you every day. If he just called you his "friend," you'd know he's still trying to keep his distance. Admittedly, it can be hard to read people these days.But if he’s chill and calm whenever you’re together, then he feels good about your new relationship. If a guy cares enough to ask after your BFF or mentions anyone you know in conversation, you can basically be confident that he’s going to be your boyfriend as soon as you discuss it.